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Discovering Ikigai 5 Steps B

Discovering Ikigai: 5 Steps to Unlock Your Life’s Worth and Purpose

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What’s Your Reason for Being? Have you ever questioned why you are doing the things you do? Whether it’s in your career, relationships, or day-to-day grind, we all hit those moments where we question our direction. That’s where Ikigai, a powerful Japanese concept, comes in. Pronounced “ee-kee-guy,” it translates to “life’s worth” or “life’s value.” It’s a reminder that your life is more than just a to-do list, it’s about finding joy, meaning, and purpose. If you’re feeling stuck, unfulfilled, or out of alignment, understanding Ikigai can help you create a more intentional and rewarding life. So, let’s dive in and uncover how this philosophy can inspire your journey toward a life worth living. Why Ikigai Matters in a Busy World In today’s rapidly changing world, it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters. Between juggling work, family, and personal aspirations, finding purpose often takes a backseat. That’s where Ikigai shines. It’s a way to align what you love, what you’re good at, what you can be paid for, and what the world needs. Think of it as your personal compass, pointing you toward fulfilment. When you find your Ikigai, you wake up with excitement and go to bed with gratitude. Even if you’re not living in perfect alignment yet, simply being aware of this concept can change your perspective and help you make intentional decisions. A Cultural Insight: Lessons from Japan My journey with Ikigai began during a life-changing tour of Japan. While I was walking through its bustling streets, I was struck by the country’s unique harmony between tradition and modernity. You’ll find cutting-edge technology alongside ancient practices like bonsai pruning, a skill passed down for centuries. In Japan, I visited temples rebuilt in the exact manner of their ancient originals, preserving knowledge while embracing innovation. I think to myself that that balance is the essence of Ikigai: honouring your past while staying adaptable for the future. It’s no wonder Japan has the oldest population and have the highest number of businesses that is over 1,000 years old. This philosophy of purpose is deeply woven into their culture, and it’s something we in the Western world can learn from and integrate into our own lives. The Four Pillars of Ikigai In Western culture’s understanding, Ikigai emerges where four key elements converge: What You Love Pertains to your passions and joys. What You’re Good At Includes your skills and strengths. What You Can Be Paid For Refers to your  profession or business. What the World Needs Your mission or impact on society. When these four areas overlap, you’ll find the sweet spot that brings you purpose, happiness, and balance. But here’s the thing, contrary to what some people say, you don’t have to live in perfect alignment all the time. It’s OK Not to Have One Singular Purpose Let me challenge a myth: You don’t have to have one singular, all-consuming purpose in life. It’s perfectly fine to pursue multiple passions or have a job that funds your true purpose. For example, your 9-to-5 might not light you up, but it provides financial stability so you can support a charity, explore creative hobbies, or travel. You’re still living your Ikigai because every piece of the puzzle contributes to your overall life value. The weight of trying to discover your life’s calling can feel crushing. However, you must focus on what feels good now. Purpose isn’t static. It evolves as you do. The key is intentionality: knowing what matters to you and taking steps to honour it, even if it’s just one small action at a time. Practical Ways to Live Your Ikigai Here’s how you can start integrating Ikigai into your life today: Reflect on Your Joys Take 10 minutes to jot down what brings you happiness. It could be something simple, like listening to birdsong or travelling to new places. These are clues to your Ikigai. Create a Plan Align your passions with your goals. For instance, if you dream of travelling, build a budget and timeline to make it happen. Embrace Small Steps You don’t have to overhaul your life overnight. Start by carving out time for the things that matter most, even if it’s just 15 minutes a day. Balance Work and Passion If your current job isn’t your dream, find ways it can support your passions. Perhaps it funds a side hustle or gives you the freedom to volunteer. Stay Adaptable Remember, your Ikigai will change as you grow. What matters today might look different a year from now, and that’s OK. How Ikigai Can Change Your Life Understanding Ikigai isn’t just a feel-good concept. It’s a tool for transformation. When you live with purpose: You wake up energised, even on tough days. You make decisions with clarity and confidence. You feel connected to something greater than yourself. In short, you stop living on autopilot and start designing a life that feels truly meaningful. Take the First Step Towards Your Ikigai What would your life look like if you aligned with your Ikigai? Imagine waking up with a sense of direction, knowing you’re contributing to something that matters. The journey starts with self-awareness and small, intentional changes. I’m here to help you uncover your unique purpose and create a life that aligns with your values. Whether it’s through my Conscious Leadership Podcast, social media content, or personalised mentoring, let’s work together to unlock your potential. Connect with Me Connect with me today on LinkedIn, Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook for deeper insights into living a purposeful life. Final Thoughts on Ikigai Purpose isn’t something you find once and hold onto forever, it’s a journey. So, start small, stay curious, and remember: your Ikigai is already within you. You just need to uncover it.

01/04/2025 / Comments Off on Discovering Ikigai: 5 Steps to Unlock Your Life’s Worth and Purpose
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Unleash Your Mental Plasticity - Rewire Your Mind for Lasting Change

Unleash Your Mental Plasticity: Rewire Your Mind for Lasting Change

Change Management,  Communication,  Personal Development,  Wealth Creation

The Hidden Key to Change: How Mental Plasticity Shapes Your Future and how you can rewire your mind for lasting change Why Some People Find Change Easier Than Others Change. We all want it in some form, whether it’s a healthier body, a more fulfilling career, stronger relationships, or simply a life that feels more aligned with who we truly are. But here’s the truth: wanting change and actually making it happen are two completely different things. Some people seem to adapt effortlessly, while others struggle, getting stuck in cycles of doubt, frustration, and avoidance. Why? What makes change easier for some and so daunting for others? It all comes down to something called mental plasticity — your brain’s ability to rewire itself, create new habits, and step into a new version of you. If you’ve ever felt stuck, trapped in the same patterns, struggling to shift your mindset, or unable to move past fear—you’re not alone. And more importantly, you’re not broken. You simply need to learn how to rewire your thinking. So, let’s break this down in a way that actually helps you move forward. What Exactly is Mental Plasticity? Mental plasticity (or neuroplasticity) is your brain’s natural ability to change, adapt, and reorganise itself. It’s what allows you to learn new skills, break bad habits, and think differently about life’s challenges. In simple terms, your brain is not fixed. You are not set in stone. No matter how long you’ve been doing things one way, you can change. The problem? Most people don’t know how to work with their brain’s plasticity. Instead, they fight against it—resisting change, fearing discomfort, and staying stuck in old patterns. But here’s the exciting part: once you understand mental plasticity, you can use it to your advantage. You can train your mind to be more flexible, more resilient, and more open to transformation. Why Do Some People Find Change Easier Than Others? Not everyone has the same level of mental plasticity. Some people naturally adapt to change better than others. Why? Because they’ve trained themselves to be comfortable with discomfort. People who handle change well tend to: Embrace uncertainty rather than fear it. See challenges as opportunities rather than threats. Understand that discomfort is part of growth. Keep a long-term vision in mind, rather than getting caught in short-term struggles. But here’s the good news—mental plasticity is trainable. Just like a muscle, your brain can be strengthened and rewired to make change easier and more natural.   The Five Stages of Change: Where Are You Stuck? Dr. Kübler-Ross first developed the five stages of grief, but these same stages apply to any major life change, whether it’s switching careers, ending a toxic relationship, starting a business, or transforming your health.   Which stage are you currently in? Denial – “I don’t need to change.” This is the stage where we tell ourselves, “Everything’s fine. I can keep doing what I’ve always done and get a different result.” Except… deep down, we know that’s not true. If you feel stuck but keep convincing yourself that “one-day” things will magically change without effort, you’re in denial. Resistance – “This is too hard.” You’ve accepted that change is necessary, but now you’re in full-on fight mode. This is where frustration, anxiety, and self-doubt creep in. The old way feels safer. The unknown feels terrifying. Many people give up at this stage because the discomfort is too much. Rock Bottom – “I don’t know what to do next.” This is the breaking point. You’ve tried, you’ve failed, and now you feel overwhelmed, helpless, or stuck. This stage is crucial because you have two choices: Give up and retreat back to old habits. Push through and create a new way forward. 4. Testing – “Maybe I can do this.” This is where things start to shift. You begin experimenting with small changes. You start building confidence in your ability to adapt. At first, it’s uncomfortable. But the more you practice, the more it becomes a second nature. Acceptance & Growth – “This is who I am now.” At this stage, change is no longer something you’re forcing. It has become part of who you are. You’ve rewired your brain. You’re living the new reality. And you’re stronger for it. This is where true transformation happens. How to Train Your Mind for Change If you’re reading this and thinking, “This all makes sense, but how do I actually do it?”, here’s where to start: Create a Clear Vision Without a vision, your mind will cling to the familiar, even if it’s unhealthy. Ask yourself: Who do I want to become? What do I need to do differently? How will my life improve when I make this change? Rewire Your Self-Talk Your words shape your reality. If you keep saying, “I can’t do this,” “I’m not good enough,” or “It’s too late for me,” you’re reinforcing old mental patterns. Instead, shift your self-talk to: “I am capable of change.” “I handle challenges with confidence.” “Every step I take is moving me forward.” Make Discomfort Your New Normal Change is always uncomfortable at first. Instead of seeing discomfort as a sign to stop, see it as proof that you’re growing. Ask yourself: “Am I willing to be uncomfortable for a while so I can be stronger in the long run?” Surround Yourself with the Right People The people you spend time with either reinforce your old patterns or encourage your growth. Who challenges you to think bigger? Who supports your vision for change? Who holds you accountable? If you don’t have the right support system, it’s time to build one. Take One Small Action Today You don’t have to change everything overnight. But you do have to start. Think about that one small action you can take today that moves you closer to your goal. Do it now so things become easier to deal with. Final Thoughts: Change Starts With You If you’re tired of feeling stuck, frustrated, or

03/03/2025 / Comments Off on Unleash Your Mental Plasticity: Rewire Your Mind for Lasting Change
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Fractured Focus

Overcoming Fragmented Focus: Unlock the Key to Personal Success and Productivity

Business,  Emotion,  Personal Development,  Wealth Creation

Fragmented Focus: The Silent Saboteur of Personal Success Learn how to conquer distractions, sharpen your focus, and achieve your goals with clarity and purpose. In an age of endless notifications, multitasking myths, and constant connectivity, focus has become one of the most precious and endangered resources. While the world celebrates the ability to “do it all,” the silent cost of fragmented focus is immense—and often overlooked. So, how does fragmented focus derail personal success, and how can you regain control? You Tube   follow and subscribe

24/12/2024 / Comments Off on Overcoming Fragmented Focus: Unlock the Key to Personal Success and Productivity
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Grief by Ruth Owen

GRIEF by Ruth Owen

Emotion,  Relationship,  Ruth Owen

I had a routine appointment at the hospital the other day.

18/12/2024 / Comments Off on GRIEF by Ruth Owen
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Demographics & the 1:6 ratio

The Personal Reality of Our Aging Population 1:6 ratio

Business,  Culture,  General,  Leadership

One Worker, Six Seniors: The Personal Reality of Our Aging Population and the 1:6 Ratio   We have a UK-wide ‘problem’, and with the recent changes with the new budget, it is time to think about radical change in life and business   Imagine being 25 years old and knowing that by the time you reach your prime working years, you’ll be financially supporting not just your own family but effectively covering the needs of six elderly people through your taxes.

01/11/2024 / Comments Off on The Personal Reality of Our Aging Population 1:6 ratio
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Toxic Positivity

What is Toxic Positivity?

Emotion,  Personal Development,  Relationship,  Stress Prevention

Toxic positivity is the practice of insisting on a positive outlook no matter what the circumstances are.

15/10/2024 / Comments Off on What is Toxic Positivity?
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Butterfly Kisses

The Origins of Butterfly Kisses: A Tale of Eternal Love

Emotion,  Love,  Relationship

Once upon a time, in the dawn of the world, before words were born to express love, there existed a quiet, sacred gesture between mothers and daughters, butterfly kisses.   Long before grand speeches or songs could capture the depth of emotion between them, the soft fluttering of eyelashes against a cheek became the language of love, trust, and an unbreakable bond that would transcend life itself.   The legend of butterfly kisses begins with a divine gift, bestowed by nature itself. In an ancient meadow, far beyond the horizon, lived a mother and her daughter, bonded by a love so pure that the stars seemed to brighten when they were together. One summer evening, as the two sat under the canopy of a starlit sky, a gentle breeze stirred the flowers, and the first butterfly was born.   The butterfly’s wings, delicate and fragile, danced in the air like a living dream, and as it landed softly on the daughter’s cheek, the mother noticed how her child giggled and glowed, the tickle of the wings filling her heart with joy.   The mother, moved by this small but wondrous moment, leaned in close and fluttered her eyelashes against her daughter’s face, mimicking the butterfly’s tender touch. The daughter’s laughter rippled through the air, and in that fleeting instant, they shared something more than words, a feeling of infinite connection.   The mother, with tears in her eyes, whispered, “This is how I will always touch you, even when you cannot see me. I will always be with you, my love.”   From that moment, butterfly kisses became their promise—an expression of love that would bind them forever, beyond the limits of time. They discovered that unlike the fleeting touch of hands or the sound of voices that fade, butterfly kisses carried with them something eternal. Each gentle brush of eyelashes against the skin was like a whisper of the soul, a reminder that love is not bound by physical distance, by age, or even by death.   Over the centuries, mothers passed this tender gesture to their daughters. It became a ritual of love, often shared in the quiet moments before bedtime or at times of deep need, when the world felt too heavy, and the heart longed for the reassurance of love. Butterfly kisses became more than just a simple touch—they became a symbol of connection, a silent vow that no matter what life brought, no matter where time carried them, they would always have each other.   In life, butterfly kisses are shared in moments of joy and sorrow. A mother, cradling her newborn for the first time, gives the gift of butterfly kisses to her daughter, as if passing down the light of the stars themselves. In moments of celebration, it is the flutter of love that binds them together.   And in times of pain or loss, when words cannot ease the ache, it is the softest of kisses that reminds them: Love never dies.   And even when a mother’s time in this world has passed, the memory of butterfly kisses lives on. For each daughter carries with her the touch of her mother’s love, stored within her very being. In moments of stillness, when she closes her eyes, she can feel the gentle flutter on her cheek, as if the very wings of her mother’s soul are brushing against her, whispering that she is never truly alone.   As generations pass, the love between mothers and daughters deepens through this sacred tradition. Butterfly kisses connect them to the lineage of women who came before and to the future daughters who will carry the legacy forward. It is a love that is born with the first flutter of life and continues long after the last breath has been taken.   It is a reminder that the bond between mother and daughter is as eternal as the stars themselves.   Butterfly kisses are, in their essence, the promise that love is immortal. They are the bridge between this world and the next, the way that mothers and daughters can continue to speak in the language of the heart, even when time separates them. For though hands may fade and voices grow distant, love remains.   Love flutters softly, like the wings of a butterfly, gently brushing against the soul, reminding us that we are forever held, forever cherished.   And so, in every corner of the world, whether whispered across oceans or shared in the quiet of a home, butterfly kisses continue to flutter from one generation to the next—a gesture of infinite love, a reminder that no matter where life or death takes us, the bond between mother and daughter is unbreakable, eternal, and ever-present.   For love, like butterfly kisses, transcends all.  

08/10/2024 / Comments Off on The Origins of Butterfly Kisses: A Tale of Eternal Love
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The Cycle of Abuse

Understanding Abuse: Breaking the Cycle Without Blame

Emotion,  Personal Development,  Relationship,  Stress Prevention

What is Abuse? Abuse is a powerful word and is not something anybody will want to be called or accused of, and sadly, many are an abuser and do abuse without the knowledge they are, believe it when they are told, or change when someone informs them and provides the opportunity.

05/10/2024 / Comments Off on Understanding Abuse: Breaking the Cycle Without Blame
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Who Am I

Who Am I? The Mystery and Unravelling of Self

Career,  Emotion,  Personal Development,  Wealth Creation

In the journey of life, the question “Who am I?” serves as the bedrock of our very existence. It has intrigued philosophers, psychologists, and seekers of truth for centuries and is also one of the top searches on the World Wide Web.

14/03/2024 / Comments Off on Who Am I? The Mystery and Unravelling of Self
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Transforming Envy to Inspiration: Navigating Emotions for Personal Growth

Culture,  Emotion,  Personal Development,  Sovereignty

Transforming Envy into Inspiration and Navigating Emotions for Personal Growth – what is the connection between positive inspiration and negative envy as emotions when seeing another person’s success or belongings you admire?

26/02/2024 / Comments Off on Transforming Envy to Inspiration: Navigating Emotions for Personal Growth
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