On 01/11/23, I was at the O2 to hear Dr Jordan Peterson speak, and he had guests on stage with him, one of whom was Douglas Murray who spoke about the change of one particular phrase in the UK culture and how it had disappeared the phrase is ‘mustn’t grumble’ My love of language, curiosity, intention and influence created this post. In the joy of language, subtle changes occur that we do not always recognise are happening until it has occurred. Words and phrases that once held cultural significance fade away, only to be replaced by newer expressions. One such phrase that held its place in the British dialect for many years that was generally said after the common question ‘how are you?’ is ‘mustn’t grumble.’
Embracing the Present: Unshackling Ourselves from the Past
Embracing the Present: Unshackling Ourselves from the Past Embracing the present is a skill to learn for many of us and life is a series of moments, each building upon the last. However, our ability to thrive in the present is often shadowed by the burdens of our past. How can we find the strength to move forward, untethered by previous regrets or traumas? This article explores why and how you should unshackle yourself from the past to live a life enriched by the present. Remember: we all have a past, and our past does not have to be the prediction of our future. The choice is ours no one else
The Pros & Cons of Optimism
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What is Hope?
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From Isolation to Inclusion: Practical Ways to Expand Your Social Circle
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Why does Loneliness Occur?
Last week’s article covered the difference between Solitude and Loneliness. This week I thought to look at why does loneliness occur and what causes loneliness. I have experienced it and still do on occasion and I will cover what you can do about it next week. It is always a work in practice in my experience. Remember: what works for you may not work for someone else. Everyone is unique.
The Beauty of Solitude and the Burden of Isolation: A Personal Perspective
In our modern society, where constant connectivity is often celebrated, the true essence of solitude and isolation can be easily misunderstood. As someone who has personally experienced both states, I have come to appreciate the stark differences between them; I love one and am not keen on the other.